Often, the problems we face are just minor inconveniences. The earth is not shattered, nor the sky rent. Slight difficulties get blown out of proportion.
If we let things get to us, they will. When not maintained, one's calm is readily lost. It is paramount that we put all of our efforts into finding it again.
Count to ten, or backwards from a hundred. Do whatever it takes to contain your aggravation. Otherwise, a ripple can grow into a tidal wave.
Such matters are not worth the energy expended. Those who give in only succeed in making a mess. Their expectations are for others to clean it up.
Rage does not easily go back from whence it spewed. Cool down in order to prevent a meltdown. Unchecked anger will tend to put others in danger.
It is important to be able to relax. Be mindful of the least, but focus on what matters most. More mistakes are made when we forget our priorities.
Tuesday, May 14, 2019
Tuesday, May 7, 2019
Something to lose
When things are going well, be wary. Now that you have something to lose, it is vital to be careful. Or else, all that you have gained could be gone.
Do not take what you have for granted. It can always be taken away. Sadly, human beings tend to realize their blessings only when such are absent.
Gaining is not as hard as maintaining. Once matters start moving in a positive direction, keep them that way. Resist the temptation to rest and relax.
If you reach a goal, then set another. Contentment is a slow means to a dismal end. We must constantly struggle against the tendency to stop.
Expect that everything will fall apart. You will be more apt to see the dangers coming. It is easier to prevent problems, than to deal with them later.
Cherish your achievements, but do not rest on your laurels. Do not let a single milestone be your final destination. Know there is so much farther to go.
Do not take what you have for granted. It can always be taken away. Sadly, human beings tend to realize their blessings only when such are absent.
Gaining is not as hard as maintaining. Once matters start moving in a positive direction, keep them that way. Resist the temptation to rest and relax.
If you reach a goal, then set another. Contentment is a slow means to a dismal end. We must constantly struggle against the tendency to stop.
Expect that everything will fall apart. You will be more apt to see the dangers coming. It is easier to prevent problems, than to deal with them later.
Cherish your achievements, but do not rest on your laurels. Do not let a single milestone be your final destination. Know there is so much farther to go.
Tuesday, April 30, 2019
Music of action
It is good to be confident, but not overly so. Recognize what you do well without becoming arrogant. Otherwise, others will delight in your correction.
Accomplishment speaks so much louder than words. The proof in the pudding is there for all to see. Let the burden be upon them to prove otherwise.
Delighting in another's failings just brings yours to the surface. There will be things that we struggle with. How we handle them shows our character.
People are proud of the most shameful things. Instead of preening, they should be avoiding eye contact. Sometimes, it is better to eschew attention.
Refrain from using confidence as a weapon. It tends to paint the target on your back. Be assured, there will be plenty who are willing to take a shot.
Be confident in your capabilities, not in another's shortcomings. What you do speaks volumes. Let the music of action be the only words needed.
Accomplishment speaks so much louder than words. The proof in the pudding is there for all to see. Let the burden be upon them to prove otherwise.
Delighting in another's failings just brings yours to the surface. There will be things that we struggle with. How we handle them shows our character.
People are proud of the most shameful things. Instead of preening, they should be avoiding eye contact. Sometimes, it is better to eschew attention.
Refrain from using confidence as a weapon. It tends to paint the target on your back. Be assured, there will be plenty who are willing to take a shot.
Be confident in your capabilities, not in another's shortcomings. What you do speaks volumes. Let the music of action be the only words needed.
Tuesday, April 23, 2019
Choosing well
As adults, we are responsible for the choices we make. Bad decisions can lead to dire consequences. Yet if we choose well, the rewards could be great.
Deciding based on the outcome is a sure way to go down the wrong path. It will be hard to even find the way back. Do what is best, and all else follows.
We all make mistakes, but some make a habit of it. When it becomes a mess, clean it up. Then, take all steps needed to ensure it does not happen again.
Good decisions will not often be made with ease. Troubles may arise, along with doubts. That which is best does not always make one feel very good.
The results have a voice of their own. The longer the run, the more things come into focus. It is easier to deceive oneself for a season than a full cycle.
We cannot choose whether we will live or die. Our choices do influence what happens while we are here. Those who would do well should choose well.
Deciding based on the outcome is a sure way to go down the wrong path. It will be hard to even find the way back. Do what is best, and all else follows.
We all make mistakes, but some make a habit of it. When it becomes a mess, clean it up. Then, take all steps needed to ensure it does not happen again.
Good decisions will not often be made with ease. Troubles may arise, along with doubts. That which is best does not always make one feel very good.
The results have a voice of their own. The longer the run, the more things come into focus. It is easier to deceive oneself for a season than a full cycle.
We cannot choose whether we will live or die. Our choices do influence what happens while we are here. Those who would do well should choose well.
Tuesday, April 16, 2019
Dealing with anything
It is best not to get our hopes up. Prepare for the worst and you shall not be disappointed. Whenever things work out it will be a pleasant surprise.
We should not dwell on the negative. There is nothing wrong with hoping for the best. Understand what we receive is so rarely what was desired.
If we are honest, we can deal with anything. Nothing good comes from deceiving yourself. The bad times become worse when you are not ready.
Those with great aspirations should brace themselves for a bumpy ride. Happy endings are not easy to come by. Expect to earn whatever you get.
There is satisfaction in overcoming adversities. We learn what our limitations are and push past them. Put forth the effort if you would see the reward.
Hope is the planting of the seed. Much can happen to hinder its growth. Be prepared to face these obstacles, and then you can reap the harvest.
Tuesday, April 9, 2019
Many threads
What seems like a chance encounter can have deeper significance. Do not take anything for granted. It could be an opportunity to make a friend.
Life has a way of bringing people together. By meeting one person, you might come to know others. These connections can last for quite awhile.
Put your expectations to the side. If a situation does not go well, something good can still come from it. Just keep your eyes and your heart open.
Do not spoil the outcome by trying to determine it. Our knowledge is limited, along with our understanding. Be ready for whatever comes.
We are not the only ones affected by what we do. The slightest mistake can have unintended consequences. No one can really be an island.
Looking back, it will always seem clearer. While it is happening, confusion is likely. Many threads are woven together to make a beautiful tapestry.
Life has a way of bringing people together. By meeting one person, you might come to know others. These connections can last for quite awhile.
Put your expectations to the side. If a situation does not go well, something good can still come from it. Just keep your eyes and your heart open.
Do not spoil the outcome by trying to determine it. Our knowledge is limited, along with our understanding. Be ready for whatever comes.
We are not the only ones affected by what we do. The slightest mistake can have unintended consequences. No one can really be an island.
Looking back, it will always seem clearer. While it is happening, confusion is likely. Many threads are woven together to make a beautiful tapestry.
Tuesday, April 2, 2019
Satisfied inside
Some people are never happy. It is either too hot or too cold; too wet or too dry; too much or too little. Happiness does not come from the outside.
Those who complain tend to make a habit of it. So, the ones around them eventually tune them out. If you whine constantly, others will cease to listen.
Ideal circumstances do not a joyful heart make. It is possible to rejoice in the worst of times. When you have reached bottom, the only way to go is up.
To want is to go on wanting. Be wary not to be found that way. What we need is already in our hands, and we possess the ability to do so much better.
Changing the world is beyond our power. No matter how much we push, it will push back. The flow of reality will inevitably force us downstream.
Who we are is not for them to decide. Satisfaction is not determined by the way we feel. Having only the basic needs met, one can still be satisfied.
Those who complain tend to make a habit of it. So, the ones around them eventually tune them out. If you whine constantly, others will cease to listen.
Ideal circumstances do not a joyful heart make. It is possible to rejoice in the worst of times. When you have reached bottom, the only way to go is up.
To want is to go on wanting. Be wary not to be found that way. What we need is already in our hands, and we possess the ability to do so much better.
Changing the world is beyond our power. No matter how much we push, it will push back. The flow of reality will inevitably force us downstream.
Who we are is not for them to decide. Satisfaction is not determined by the way we feel. Having only the basic needs met, one can still be satisfied.
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