It is good to be confident, but not overly so. Recognize what you do well without becoming arrogant. Otherwise, others will delight in your correction.
Accomplishment speaks so much louder than words. The proof in the pudding is there for all to see. Let the burden be upon them to prove otherwise.
Delighting in another's failings just brings yours to the surface. There will be things that we struggle with. How we handle them shows our character.
People are proud of the most shameful things. Instead of preening, they should be avoiding eye contact. Sometimes, it is better to eschew attention.
Refrain from using confidence as a weapon. It tends to paint the target on your back. Be assured, there will be plenty who are willing to take a shot.
Be confident in your capabilities, not in another's shortcomings. What you do speaks volumes. Let the music of action be the only words needed.
The problem is that some people are REALLY bad. And when you put them down for their badness, their ego comes into play and so they double down on the badness for their own sake. Now one might blame the accuser for causing the initial shame. But the bad-doing idiot could have bothered to have improved himself rather than being a snowflake.
ReplyDeleteMy problem with this blog is that it carries the liberal viewpoint so incredibly hard. It is tactful in the way it presents itself. I know you don't identify as liberal, but there is a nasty little vein of the stuff running through it.
The truth is that if people are gonna be stupid, they will be stupid whether they are treated nicely or not. We (as adults) aren't dominoes that just fall over depending on where we are pushed. We can make decisions and are ultimately expected to own those decisions. All this blog does is paint us all are soulless beasts.
When the final days are upon us, the actions of others upon us will not be tallied. Only how he dealt with them and our ultimate choices. And what is my choice? I chose sincerity. That's why I bash the living crap out of this blog so often. I honestly think it's pointless and if it would have any effect at all on the world, it would only further the official line given to us by Satanists. See you next week.
People fear being taken to task for their evil. It is the one thing they will protect with their all. There are those who choose to destroy, and there are the ones who build up.
DeleteYou can only truly know someone by their actions, words are meaningless without spirit backing them up. True confidence comes from being true to ourselves and sincere in all things.
ReplyDeleteIt is by their deeds that people are known. What they say changes according to the mood. You can learn more about them by what they do.
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